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Resources

Healing can extend beyond therapy to include support groups, literature, and meaningful community connections. Whether you're seeking information, peer support, or additional therapeutic services, I hope these resources offer you comfort, validation, and guidance on your journey — wherever you may be along the path of growth and self-discovery.

Grief & Loss

What's Your Grief 

Educational articles, tools, and resources that explore the complexities of grief with practical, accessible guidance.

 

Grief.com 

Resources developed by David Kessler covering the stages of grief, finding meaning, and coping with different types of loss.

Good Grief Network

10-step program and peer support communities for processing collective grief related to climate change and environmental loss.

Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement

Support resources specifically for pet loss, including 24/7 chat rooms, trained counselor directory, and memorial services information.

Support Groups

By the Bay Health Grief Support

Contact: 415-526-5699

Professionally facilitated grief support groups and workshops in the Bay Area, offering both specialized loss-specific groups and general bereavement support.

Writing Through Grief® Workshops

Contact: 510-845-1557 | monheit@sonic.net

Therapeutic groups and writing workshops facilitated by Joan Monheit, LCSW, offering a supportive space where participants explore grief through guided prompts and expressive exercises.

 

Crisis Support Services of Alameda County

Contact: 800-309-2131

Offers specialized grief counseling and structured support groups for various types of loss, including sudden loss and suicide bereavement.

 

San Francisco SPCA Pet Loss Group

Contact: 415-544-3000 | petloss@sfspca.org

In-person monthly support group specifically for those grieving the loss of companion animals, led by experienced facilitators. 1st Tuesdays 7:30-9:00 pm @ SF SPCA Adoption Center.

 

Berkeley East Bay Humane Society Pet Loss Group

Contact: 510-393-1359

Free virtual monthly support group facilitated by Jill Goodfriend, RN, LCSW, offering a safe space to process the grief of losing a pet. 2nd Wednesdays 7:00-8:30pm.

Books & Podcasts

Megan Devine's book cover: "It's OK That You're Not OK"

Beyond cookie-cutter tools for navigating deep loss on your terms.

Sunset painting: "The Wild Edge of Sorrow", Francis Weller

A holistic approach to transforming sorrow into healing through 5 pathways.

Conscious Grieving book cover: A Transformative Approach to Healing from Loss by Claire Bidwell Smith, LCPC

Mindfulness practices with grief psychology to transform loss into meaning and renewed purpose.

GriefCast podcast with Cariad Lloyd

Award-winning podcast where comedians share personal experiences with grief, with humor and honesty.

The Grief Gang Podcast logo

Candid podcast by Amber Jeffrey exploring young people's grief through stories and interviews.

We Are The Great Turning Podcast artwork

Jess Serante and Joanna Macy examine ecological grief and how to transform climate despair into meaningful action.

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Aging

American Society on Aging

Providing education, publications, and advocacy resources to enhance quality of life for older adults.

 

California Department of Aging

State-funded programs including legal services, meal delivery, transportation assistance, and caregiver support.

 

San Francisco Institute on Aging

Contact: 415-750-4111 | Friendship Line: 888-670-1360

Integrated care management, mental health services, and support programs for older adults and caregivers. The Friendship Line is a 24-hour toll-free hotline for older adults and adults with disabilities, providing emotional support, grief counseling, and wellness checks.

Books & Podcasts

Ai-Jen Poo's book, "The Age of Dignity", addresses the elder boom in America

Heartfelt exploration of our elder care crisis amidst the "elderboom" demographic shift, advocating for solutions that honor aging while improving quality of life.

Louise Aronson's Elderhood: Redefining Aging, Transforming Medicine, Reimagining Life

Beyond cookie-cutter tools for navigating deep loss on your terms.

Connie Zweig, Ph.D.'s "The Inner Work of Age: Shifting from Role to Soul"

Mindfulness practices with grief psychology to transform loss into meaning and renewed purpose.

Minaa B., LMSW, hosts The Verywell Mind Podcast

Award-winning podcast where comedians share personal experiences with grief, with humor and honesty.

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Illness & Caregiving

California Alliance of Caregivers

Statewide network offering free assessments, counseling, support groups, respite care, and training specifically for family caregivers.

 

Caregiver Action Network

Comprehensive collection of practical guides, videos, and checklists covering medication management, home safety, stress reduction, and navigating healthcare systems.

 

Family Caregiver Alliance

National organization providing education, services, research, and advocacy for family caregivers, including specialized resources for dementia care.

Books & Podcasts

Thomas Moore's "Care of the Soul in Medicine": Healing guidance for patients, families, and caregivers

How to bring soul and meaning to healthcare,  for both patients and caregivers navigating medical challenges.

Trauma Stewardship book cover: An Everyday Guide to Caring for Self While Caring for Others by Laura van Dernoot Lipsky with Connie Burk

Essential guide for caregivers & helping professionals on preventing burnout while sustaining compassion in emotionally demanding work.

Woman assisting elderly man; podcast: TWENTY-FOUR SEVEN

Podcast sharing honest, first-hand accounts from dementia caregivers along with practical advice and emotional support.

Caregiver's Compass podcast with Stephanie Muskat

Hosted by Colleen Kavanaugh, this podcast explores the emotional aspects of caregiving with practical strategies for maintaining resilience and preventing burnout.

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Hair Loss

Cancer Care Specialized

Resources for managing the emotional and practical aspects of cancer-related hair loss, including financial assistance for wigs.

National Alopecia Areata Foundation

Organization dedicated to research, support, and advocacy for those with autoimmune-related hair loss conditions.

American Hair Loss Association

Nonprofit organization providing education, support, and resources for all types of hair loss, including treatment information and physician referrals.

Support Groups & Coaching

NAAF Support Groups

Searchable directory of in-person and virtual support groups specifically for people with alopecia areata and their families.

Aid by Ali Hair Loss Coaching

Contact: alison@aidbyali.com

Supportive coaching and resources by Alison Mann for women experiencing hair loss, offering emotional support and practical guidance through the hair loss journey.

 

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End-of-Life

Death Literacy & Education

Death Cafes

Global movement hosting non-profit events where people gather informally to discuss death over refreshments, with the aim of increasing awareness and reducing fear.

East Bay End of Life Doulas Care

Directory service connecting families with certified end-of-life doulas in the East Bay who can provide emotional, spiritual, and practical support during the dying process.

End-of-Life Doula Training (INELDA)

Professional organization providing certification training for doulas who offer non-medical support to dying individuals and their families.

Advance Care Planning

Compassion & Choices

Advocacy organization providing detailed information on California's End of Life Option Act, advance directives, and patient rights.

Coalition for Compassionate Care of California

Statewide partnership offering tools for facilitating end-of-life conversations, POLST forms, and cultural considerations in advance care planning.

Five Wishes

Legally valid advance directive document that addresses medical, personal, emotional, and spiritual needs, available in 30 languages.

Books & Podcasts

The Five Invitations book cover: Discovering What Death Can Teach Us About Living Fully by Frank Ostaseski

Buddhist teacher and founder of the Zen Hospice Project on how facing death can transform how we live with presence, purpose, and connection.

Katy Butler's "The Art of Dying Well": A Practical Guide to a Good End of Life

Practical guidebook offering actionable chapters on preparing for a good death at different life stages, from resilient elderhood to active dying

When Breath Becomes Air book cover: Paul Kalanithi

Soulful memoir by a neurosurgeon facing terminal cancer, weaving medicine and philosophy to provide gentle wisdom for those confronting illness, mortality, and life's deepest questions.

Death In The Afternoon podcast cover art

Educational podcast from mortician Caitlin Doughty and the Order of the Good Death, exploring death practices and challenging death taboos

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Other Clinicians

I'm fortunate to know and collaborate with some wonderful clinicians who also offer support in similar areas, including grief, aging, illness, caregiving, and end-of-life care. Should my practice lack current availability, I wholeheartedly recommend these colleagues with the utmost care and confidence:

Annie Brashem, LCSW

Contact: 510-545-3837 | anniebrashem.lcsw@gmail.com

Big Life Change Therapy

Contact: 415-212-8648 | info@biglifechangetherapy.com

Ilana Brosh, LCSW

Contact: 510-738-2932 | ilana.brosh@gmail.com

Stef Coleman, LMFT

Contact: 415-820-1512

Alison Hu, PhD, ABPP, PMH-C

Contact: 415-295-2556 | alison@dralisonhu.com

Patti Liberman, RN, LMFT

Contact: 925-257-2299 | Patti@pattilibermantherapynurse.com

Laura Matthews, LCSW

Contact: 510-473-2533 | hello@lauramatthewsLCSW.com

Joan Monheit, LCSW

Contact: 510-845-1557 | monheit@sonic.net

See above listing for group offerings.

Sara Ouimette, LMFT

Contact: saraouimettemft@gmail.com

Julie Stroud, LCSW

Contact: 510-631-0471 | julie@juliestroudpsychotherapy.com

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Crisis

If you or someone you know is experiencing a mental health crisis or having thoughts of suicide, please reach out for immediate support:

988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline

Contact: Call or text 988

National 24/7 network providing free, confidential support through trained crisis counselors for anyone experiencing emotional distress or suicidal thoughts.

Crisis Support Services of Alameda County

Phone: 1-800-309-2131

Local 24/7 crisis intervention, suicide prevention, and grief counseling hotline serving Alameda County residents in multiple languages – see above listing for group offerings.

Please Note: This page includes an array of resources which I personally recommend as helpful starting points, not as endorsements or substitutes for professional care. Please contact any providers that resonate with you to learn more about their services.

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